Changed for BF/GF:is a must?

Many people are willing to change for the sake of their lover. Whether it was requested, or the desire itself. Transformed into a better person, obviously is not a problem. In fact, Cindy Haynes in The Book of Change, it was suggested. Moreover, if based on personal awareness.

"Changed or (rather) a compromise for the sake of a lover, will contribute to the relationship. Moreover, when the change is positive and inspiring for both of us. Nothing wrong,!" Said Haynes. 
Then, what kind of changes that can be said positive and inspiring? Appearance, such as when you are required to look elegant and sexy, but you are a casual person. Do not get frustrated, but try to find a new side that you never feel. Compromise, to the extent where you can change it. At the very least, you do not need to be changed.


Weight. Naturally, if he/she concentrated on weight. The reason, besides not pleasing to the eye, too thin or too fat is a sign people are less healthy. No offense, but think about the positive side, unless you are comfortable with the current body weight. 


Changing personality. This is the most difficult, because it's already innate nature. But when he/she takes you into a better direction, why not? Moreover, if (the word of friend), you've got a line of nature "ugly", such as angry, vengeful, or lazy. will be okay, if it can be changed right?


More smart. That is certainly not because you are stupid, but they will feel more proud if you could 'more' smart. This could add your spirit to come across as a more qualified person. Absolutely not  a bad   change right? Essentially, as far as changes that impact both graduated, we need to consider. After all, not just for the good relationship, but for us too! Um, if love the get more attached, fun right ...?